Learn the Art of Conversing

Advice by Zee BMen know how to talk. A man is smooth and doesn't slur. So be composed and clear when you talk. Talk in simple words and be charming. If you have to approach a girl, or are being introduced to one, then speak pleasantly and courteously.
Most men think that popularity and charm depends entirely on the ability to talk tongue in cheek. You don't have to be a great conversationalist nor do you have to be a stand up comedian to woo a girl. The way a man talks tells a lot about himself. Listen to someone for a while and you would be able to tell if he is boring, kind, selfish, open minded or pig headed! Learn to pay attention when she talks and reciprocate cheerfully. Let her know that you are taking in every word she says. Basically, let her love talking to you.

Leave them wanting MORE!

You want to leave your beloved wanting more. It’s similar to eating a succulent strawberry. If you eat the entire strawberry in one bite, it’s all gone.
If, however, you take only a small bite out of the strawberry, your appetite gets whetted for more. Make your beloved want more, by giving them only a little taste of who you really are.
Do NOT lie about yourself: that sets up the relationship for a disastrous ending.
Instead, give a piece at a time. Giving your name, if they don’t already know it, is the perfect place to start. You do not need to give a last name, or a middle name; just a first name, or whatever it is you prefer to be called.
Last names can wait until you know each other a bit better. If they ask what your last name is, say something silly and sexy, such as: “Stick around long enough and you’ll find out.”

Men's Seduction

Advice by Zee B
Ok, so you want to learn the art of the pick up and I would love to see comments of your own successful pick up techniques. Well if you are like most guys then you need a lot of work! The issue is when trying to pick up a girl you try too hard. The name of the game is to impress a girl but not in the usual way. Most guys have exactly the same approach when they see a girl that they like. However, this lame approach rarely works and girls have perfected their own defense mechanisms for warding off unwanted attention from you guys! You must be subtle about your approach and attraction-building and use her defense mechanisms against her.
Pushing her emotional hot-buttons will work greatly to your advantage. This is exactly what the best pick up artists do!
First off, when going out, try not to think too much that you're out to meet girl. Instead view it as a social experiment where you’re out to meet new people! When you approach a girl DO NOT become too invested in the pick-up or the interaction. So what if you don’t get her number! There are plenty more fish in the sea.
This attitude will keep you sharp and ensure you are unaffected by any rejection that you may experience. However, there is another side-effect of this attitude – it is one of the very things that make you attractive to a girl!

By having a “take you or leave you” type attitude and being unaffected by her opinion of you; you are displaying higher social standing! If she doesn’t want to talk to you it’s her loss because you are popular and in demand! So talk to lots of people. Learn to be a “people person”. Smile and nod and become comfortable interacting with new people you meet. Single girls notice these small things.
Don't get too hung-up on one girl. That is the frequent mistake most men make. They try and provoke one girl, get rejected and then give up completely. Work the room!
Bear in mind that rejection can only make you better at the pick-up. When you start don’t expect every woman to say “yes” to you. Your failures will act as learning experiences and through practice you will know exactly what to do and say depending on the situation you are in and the people you are talking to.
Make sure you are in a crowd and take the leader role in it. If the crowd look like they are enjoying themselves and laughing this will be noticed by girls. So seek the company of fun friends. You can be in the company of both men and women as this will not affect your chances of picking-up another girl but only make you more attractive.
Sometimes you should use your friends for social networking. This is especially true of your female friends. Get them to introduce you to their single girlfriends!

Holiday Party Provides Flirting Opportunities

What better way to flirt and celebrate than to give a little Holiday party.
Invite friends and have them maybe bring one or two of their friends you don't know. This could be new flirting opportunities. Ask them to bring finger foods and desserts and you supply the punch. I searched the web and found a few really cool recipes, ones I will be trying myself. I have always wanted a really good Sangria recipe and I think I found one.

The Best Sangria Recipe
SO FREAKING GOOD!!
Loads of review on this one and one reviewer left out the sugar.
Ingredients
• 1/2 cup brandy
• 1/4 cup lemon juice
• 1/3 cup frozen lemonade concentrate
• 1/3 cup orange juice
• 1 (750 milliliter) bottle dry red wine
• 1/2 cup triple sec
• 1 lemon, sliced into rounds
• 1 orange, sliced into rounds
• 1 lime, sliced into rounds
• 1/4 cup white sugar (optional)
• 8 maraschino cherries
• 2 cups carbonated water (optional)
Directions
1. In a large pitcher or bowl, mix together the brandy, lemon juice, lemonade concentrate, orange juice, red wine, triple sec, and sugar. Float slices of lemon, orange and lime, and maraschino cherries in the mixture. Refrigerate overnight for best flavor. For a fizzy sangria, add club soda just before serving.

Flirting in the Gym

I’m a huge proponent of meeting people via activities such as the gym or any health club. But I can see where some of us might be a bit concerned about getting to know someone who makes your heart go pitty-patter while you are busy huffing and puffing on the treadmill.
Fear not, let the lesson begin -- flirty and charming while you work-out.
Don’t let the fact that you are about to get physical keep you from putting an ounce of effort into your overall look. I’m certainly not suggesting that you wear your best Saturday night clubbing skirt with that sparkly eye-shadow but take a little bit of pride in attempting to appear as though you didn’t try too hard to look good and try to stay as if you look natural. Show off a bit of your style by wearing funky arm warmers or a pair of socks with bling but keep it simple and just look adorable.
Don’t worry about the sweat. You’re both going to be doing it. If you like each other, you’ll survive. Trust me. If you cannot sweat in front of each other, it wasn’t meant to be but remember to wear deodorant. Hey your crush will be sweating too and they’ll feel more at ease if you too have a bead of sweat not to mention you will have a bit of glow!
If you get one-on-one time, be yourself! Whether you are taking a jog, a bike ride, or getting silly with table tennis or the Wii Fit, use your exercise time as a jumping off point to talking to the fabulous person next to you!

Flirting Tips 101

Ten flirting tips to get you started.

1. Attitude: If you don't have it, you can't flaunt it. The best flirts are risk takers with an unshakeable confidence.

2. Humor: A must-have. One of the core elements of a relationship is the ability to make the other person laugh; be it "at" or "with" you.

3. Believability: You have to believe you're a great catch or no one else will. Period. If you don't think you're worth it, you've lost the game before it's begun.

4. Assertiveness: Approach someone and start a conversation. And no, you do not have to be a male to make the first move. Welcome to the 21st century.

5. Accessorize: Not with jewelry and matching shoes, but with conversation starters like dogs, a good book, or a signature scent that's bound to attract attention.

6. Approachability: Nobody likes an ice-queen, or king for that matter. Force yourself to let your guard down and you'll make yourself more approachable.

7. Eye Contact: Don't stare the other person down; simply give them the attention and respect they deserve. BONUS: Direct eye contact also shows confidence!

8. Have Fun: Nothing says "comfortable" like a person who is willing to "let down their hair" and be spontaneous and goofy. It goes back to that humor thing!

9. Sincerity: If they are truly interested in you, they will want you to feel comfortable being the "real you." Don't be afraid to show a little vulnerability.

10. Smile: Not only does it show you're enjoying their company, it's contagious, and it makes you one hundred times more attractive and approachable!