Don't be in such a hurry to choose a mate. Take your time to choose the right person and it should be done in a smart way. Maybe the person is beautiful or dashing; don't judge a mate only on his/her outer features. Learn what the other person loves to do and try to realize his/her nature before settling.
Dating doesn’t mean you have already committed to love someone. Go on a date with a new person, analyze them, and get to know more about them and about their family members, their interests and so on. You may share your dreams with this person. Express your principles and ethics of life. Learn how they take this information in and how much they value it. It is these type of things that is so important for a successful love life.