Everyone loves a mysterious person. If you’re looking to attract a member of the opposite sex, you would do well to become a little mysterious yourself. Everyone’s heard that you should play hard to get in order to attract the person you like. BUT there’s one problem with this: if you play hard to get too hard, you might become hard to want.
People that remain too aloof from their hearts desire often give the wrong impression. Their standoffishness makes the other person believe that you have no interest in them, which makes them, in turn, change their interest away from you and towards someone who will appreciate their advances, however subtle.
Instead of playing hard to want, play a true hard to get.
Let them know that you’re interested in them by using a little flirting! Flirting can be done tastefully, and will let your crush know that you got your eye on them. Above all, make sure that you acknowledge any advances that are made. If their eyes fall on yours, make sure they know that you have seen them. If they smile at you, smile back!